Are you ready for an apology..??!

Are you ready for an apology..??!

Apologizing to your friend can be even harder than realizing that you’ve acted badly!

To truly apologize to a friend, you have to be sincere, admit your mistakes, and let your friend know how much he or she means to you💕

This may sound easier to say but when you throw your ego to the dustbin and show some real care n love, then you’ll have a true n beautiful apology ready.

I’m so sorry, I’m one biggg idiot.. You mean a lot to me. It’s killing me to know that I’ve hurt you and am still..😣

  Here are Some tips: 😜

1. Always apologize in person — it means a lott!!🥰

Unless you and your friend live far away from each other, your best option is to apologize in person. Anything else could be considered lame, like texting in WhatsApp, talking in the public like nothing happened, and these things make you look like a common friend, not the best one.

Sending flowers or gifts r chocolates is okay, but if you do this kind of thing instead of talking to your friend face to face then you’re just hiding behind the gifts.

And flowers aren’t going to talk up and say “I’m sorry.” If you want your apology to sound sincere, then no expensive gift/chocolate or beautiful bouquet is going to beat a face-to-face meeting.

If your friend is really far away, then call or videocall them. It’s not perfect, but it is way better than ignoring things until you see each other again!! 

Hey.. wait!! You still have an another option... Infact beautiful option.. Try writing a letter for them🥰 Oh sorry, I forgot this is an updated generation right!! Ookay then the laaaast but the beshtt option: Why can't you send an email? Longggg paragraph with emoji's decorated in between the chain of letters n the longg sentences with full of emotions.. Woww!! Heart touching!!❤️ 

2. Never say sorry as a formality.🤷

Apologies should be heartfelt. But they should also fulfill all the below mentioned points:

✓Taking full responsibility for what you’ve done.

✓Realizing how it’s made the other person feel.

✓Including the words “I’m sorry, I know the fault is mine”

✓Showing how grateful you are for the friendship.

✓Planning to make things up or be better next time.

✓Assuring that the same mistake won't happen again.

3.  Apologize, no matter how hard it seems❤️

When you find that it’s time to apologize, don't find reasons to backout and dont wait for your friend to approach you. If your friend approaches you about what you’ve done, then you already run the risk of looking like a bad friend, so strike while the iron is hot (but when your friend has cooled off).

Make apologizing to your friend a priority. If you think like 'will see later or wait for the right time' why do you even want to apologize?

Apologies can be hard. But they’re necessary. Get over your fears and pride or ego and remember that you've hurted someone you love n care about.

4. Say you’re sorry😊

That’s right. This is the most important part. Suck it up and spit it out. Say, “I’m really sorry that I did that.” Or, “I’m really sorry that I…” Make it clear that you are sorry about something that you’ve done to hurt your friend. This may be the hardest task, so take a deep breath, make eye contact with your friend, and say that you are really sorry.

Don’t say something like, “I’m sorry that you were so upset…” This is some terrible, passive aggressive crap that basically blames them, not you. Like making excuses, it makes you a bad friend.

5.Tell them their friendship is more important than your ego💙

Let your friend see that your friendship is more important than anything else in the world and that you know you need to redefine your priorities in the future. Your friend should see that whatever you did wasn’t worth it and that you wish that you could start over and put your friend first in mind instead. Be frank and honest. This isn’t the time to use sentences like “you know I’m your friend.” This is the time for “I’m your friend, but I didn’t act like it and am really sorry for that.”

6. Find a way to make them happy.. try to compensate your mistake with the happiness.

Hey! Don’t buy any fancy things to gift them. Things don’t create friendships, conversations do. Take them out for dinner, make sudden plans with them, hang out soon, and surprise them with a sudden visit. This is your friend, it's not must, but why can't you make time for them.. when you really care about their feelings.

7. Lastly... Ask for forgiveness🤗

After you’ve said all of the things you’ve had to say, ask your friend, “Will you forgive me?” Hopefully, your friend will see how much your friendship means to you and will forgive you right away. Then you can hug, show how happy you are, and be relieved that you made it through the apology. And if your friend needs a little more time and won’t forgive you, at least you can tell yourself that you tried.

No one likes asking for forgiveness, that’s what makes it so meaningful when you do! Don’t skip this tip, thinking about your ego.. bcz it’s important❤️

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