Love!!?

What is love for you?

By ‘You’ I mean each one of you reading this.

 (Although somewhere I trigger few people out there)

1. Is it the love that We have for our parents.. Hey wait!

Try scrolling down your social media on ‘mother’s day’ or ‘father’s day’ .

The poor parents aren’t even aware of the fact that their “Dad's princess or mom's little girl ” exists on instagram and facebook and is telling them that they love them. 

No matter how many fights you have with them on that day, but a post is must, otherwise you might be declared as an orphan by the society..

2.Is it the satisfaction that you get after posting infinite pictures on instagram and receiving the validation from people that you are indeed “good looking” ,  cause anyhow it doesn’t matter how many times your own parents might have told you the same fucking thing.

3. Or is it the  ‘Awww’ and ‘Oh my God’?  Bcz this is how we portray our love in front of people, animals as well as certain inanimate objects. Well, this is also a sad n harsh truth that when a person chooses to say that he loves you , this is how he gets a reply – ‘Awww’ !

        (I am awestruck at such gestures sometimes.. You too??)

4. Well sadly, just like we idolize our Gods, our beliefs, we are idolizing Love too.  

Isn’t it “Virushka” fans? 

I’m not against following trends but how does following trends in love life makes sense? 

5. Now I feel like talking in detail about the one sided lovers hoisting their singlehood status high promoting the love failure songs.. 

 “Tu safar mera , Hai tu hi meri manzil

Tere bina guzara, Ae dil hai Mushkil…. ”

  I really feel feel like adding another category to the gender list –  Male, female, others, “Heartbroken”.

In the current condition, people show their sadness by removing their WhatsApp dp, put up an extremely depressing and gloomy statuses..

Which makes us thinks that "oh may be break up is an equivalent to black hole approaching the earth" in the present scenario.

6. Definitely love isn't something clingy.. Clinging to the person you love is another pathetic form of love happening these days. Having a lot of expectations from that poor soul who doesn't even have an idea about your level of expectations but is accused over and over again for not being “available” for you. 

I mean how is he supposed to be available for you all the fucking time ? Not calling, texting 24*7 doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you. Sometimes space is the most ignored and overrated word that eventually leads to the gap in the relationships and families.

Huh! The word “Love”  is something which is very difficult to define. I guess..!! 

I repeat, What is love?

To be very honest it’s a lack , the most inarticulate word in the best known dictionaries of the universe.

And may be the word has a phrase in itself. There’s no definition,no song ,no words , no poems that can justify the gravity of this word.. not just a word, that's a longest sentence in its own way. 

And “I can’t live without you” is the most trending illusion that people believe and a lie that people fall for..

Stop misleading yourself, stop doing injustice to an emotion by jabbing it over and over. You can’t chain a person unlike your pet.

      In my way it’s better n easier to love, than to give love. Bcz in present scenario, the two-way lane can end up with  a blockage.

Love is something most beautiful of all the emotions . But at the same time , it does have its own limits.

You can’t expect me to love you in place of food and coffee. I mean love can’t buy you food unless it’s love for your work, your passion.

Holding hands and offering a warm touch isn’t a cliche things. It’s a gesture, an unconventional-cum-conventional way of expressing love . 

Singing songs isn’t overrated, it’s simply a way to project your feelings. Making small moves, giving in equivalence to the amount you take, some hugs, some kisses, some gestures , taking out time and perhaps the list goes on, are the little ways that add ups an explanation to that simple word called 'Love'.

Making you rise at the time when your entire world falls apart is what loving means. This accounts for everyone around you, your parents, friends, partner and your pets too. Emotion and range may differ, but the basement proportion remains constant – it has to be unconditional.

And as humans we do expect but our expectations should never become a barrier to the other person. You both should be each others strength. 

 And Yeah it’s more important to be always together.. not to be near each other .

Moreover love acts as a healer and in your case if it doesn’t, then surely you might be at the wrong page expecting for the unexpecting!

Lastly I would say that I believe Love is something like a dream catcher.. which always blesses you with the sweet, positive n beautifull things by extracting the bitter n the negative ones!